I’ve written in previous posts about how Jack has appointed himself Bengal-in-Charge-of-Secure-Attachment for our family. 
He took it to a whole new level at Sophie’s acupuncture appointment this week – checking the scores of her canine orthopedic index and what her tongue color could be indicating according to traditional Chinese Medicine!!
It is this sort of thing that is at the root of secure attachment – someone showing attentive care and concern for us.
So much of the pain I process through with clients involves the absence appropriate care – even in stories full of Big T abuse traumas – these traumas of omission lie at the root of so much of the pain and the core beliefs I’M WORTHLESS – I DON’T MATTER.
These beliefs are distorted, and advanced protocols of EMDR therapy can repair the attachment deficits – the traumas of omission – and restore an accurate sense of worth and security. 
This is a tough subject but I’d love to hear your thoughts!
#bengalsmakeeverythingbetter #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #healing #transformation #emdr #emdrreadinesscourse
Photo credit and so much gratitude for the amazing care to Dr. Wolfrum at Del Dios Veterinary Acupuncture!!
